men – My Blog On Everything

Life is strange, it starts and stops, twists and turns, happy endings to sad memories, and down times when you have it all. Maybe that is the way life goes, after all, without sad times it is difficult to imagine what motivation would there be to try your best, to change your life, to help other people, and chase contentment. Maybe that is what it is all about, being content that you gave life your all everyday you could manage. Chase life to the fullest, change yourself for the better, and keep on trying.

Life is the strangest thing there is

That was the old state of being, trying my hardest, but, I am approaching 40 and I’m still single. Maybe the point of life was always love. Maybe it was love for life itself and I can’t end this decade, being a single man. For there are others that I care about, and they care about me, perhaps, and maybe just perhaps, we should be a family. Watch the sunset and stay up for sunrise, discussing our lives, and analysing if we made the most of that day. Kiss at dawn, and start again. With passion! With care! With love! And, with hope! Hope that the world will be a better place. Hope that when I fall asleep, I while wake up with her still beside me. A family, a happy family, that tries their hardest and chases the chances they have. If that is what we are, a family, maybe the rest while make sense as time unfolds.

Love is the reason always

The possibilities are endless, if I am right now just one man, I can do tonnes of things that I couldn’t before, like smoke cigarettes, and shoot for the stars. Maybe those were two things I was doing before, but in the last 16 years it has been since I saw them, maybe we will be best friends immediately, maybe it while take a while, maybe it won’t, but I aim to be in a position, where at least we will get a chance to try. Try our hardest we shall.

A man can love cigarettes, but it isn’t the same

For that is the key to growing old, have someone to share it all with as the story unfold, reflect and analyse, from another’s perspective with love in their eyes, changes the game, unfolds the options, and makes for a journey worth commiting too.

The journey starts at marriage, the rest was just preparing

If the goal of life is love, and the point of love is life, and the point of life is love and so forth, how am I failing so badly at getting a girlfriend. I don’t know where I went wrong, we would be content together, so I’ll hope for the best, remember that a relationship is a test, of if you get the point of life, and I believe I do.

Happiness is a woman holding your hand

So wives, here is to the ages, the stories we will share as our lives unfold, the stories that even at our lowest know, that with love, anything is possible, with love the future is nice, and with love, comes respect for my wives. I hope your days are filled with fun, and you are never too far from another moment, to reflect, and chase happiness.

Sometimes in life, you can go a long while, alone, adrift, detached, and without anyone to share your life with. Sometimes that can change though, and, in this case, change again. Back to the void. Back to emptiness, back to nothing at all, nothing at all forever, without love, there couldn’t be life. I had that happen to me with a woman I met from Switzerland. We encountered each other in a strange way, as all ways are, and we fell in love immediately. I remember our first meeting, where she was into poetry, and so was I. We both went to the same university, and she had on a toque, I love women with hats. We dated once a week for about six months before the cold steel of reality sent us on different paths, her into the unknown, and me one rung closer to hell.

Love tells us what we should and shouldn’t do.

I liked that she was original, creative, intelligent, and both carefree and careful. She melted my heart at her attempts to make my life better, which she did from that day until this. On our third date, it was obvious that we would get married, we were going to make each others ever after that much better. We talked about our home countries, the nazi’s and everything in between. My life was constantly high, even though I was not, because I knew that given a few days I would see her again. Love is funny, it comes into our lives and never leaves, and it sure wouldn’t have if either of us had been the ones directing our own destiny. She was cute, and constantly happy. Fun to be with, including when we played tennis. I like to think I could spend the next hundred years looking forward to the morning each night when I go to sleep, if I could only wake up next to her.

Women are the best part about being a man.

The Swiss don’t eat Greek Salad I learned, they mostly seem to eat squash. They also don’t like the nazi’s, but who does? I think history is determined by those who take action, not those who just ponder. So with that, I embark on a journey, how to win her back. I would love to hold her hand or gaze into her deep ocean blue eyes. I would love to go to Thailand with her by my side. I want a life filled with love, and hers sure was. Now that she has been gone a while, the journey might take a bit. I don’t actually know her last name, and to be honest, she wasn’t with her first. I have been so alone for so long and stuck in my ways, that I think it is time to change things up. I know I found my meaning in life, both work and love, but I only ever work and am lonely at the present. So join me if you want, in winning her back, I don’t know what will work, but I’ll start with a poem. As with any adventure, I could greatly fail, but failure is only failure if it stops the journey, the adventure is always there for those who wish to undertake it.

The adventure in life, is felt by loving every day.

My first step on the journey is to get a job as a Front End Web Developer, I think that while give me some income which I can use to push aside my own failures, my own inadequacies. Why I postponed the journey though, is due to circumstances beyond my control, tomorrow though I shall embark, and hopefully I can find the woman I am in love with, even if it means leaving my comfort zone, even if it means risking it all, even if I fail, because those who never start, always fail to succeed. I never wish for love to fail in anyone, so why should I accept it in myself. Love is life’s point, love is the miracle you can experience everyday, so with that, I change, and I hope the rest, falls into place.

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